For Guys

My Girlfriend is Pregnant… Now What?!

Once she’s missed a period, everything can change—fast. Although she makes the final decision, most women really care what their partner thinks. Here are a few tips to help you make a decision you both agree on:

• Let her know how important she is to you. Don’t pressure her to make a decision or check out emotionally. Commit to exploring your options together and getting whatever help you need to strengthen your relationship.

• Let her know you’re there for her, each step of the way. Start by offering to go with her to her pregnancy testing appointment​.

• Once the pregnancy has been confirmed, explore your pregnancy options together. Communicate openly about your feelings and consider which option might be best for you as a couple.

• Listen to her thoughts and feelings. Ask her about her hopes or fears regarding abortion, adoption, and parenting. It may also help to get advice from someone you both trust!

PLL is not just for women – our services include you. Make a (free!) appointment at PLL to talk with another guy, one who understands what you are going through.